Confess!
When we first lived in the US, I remember a conversation I had with a friend that went something like this: Me "You alright?" Her "Yes. Why do you keep asking me that, don't I look alright???" Me "Well yes, it's just a figure of speech I guess.. While we're on the subject, why do you keep asking me 'what's happening?' when we're just sitting doing nothing?" Her (laugh) "Same figure of speech I guess!" We laughed realizing it was just a way of asking how you were, and whether it's those phrases or 'How are you doing?', 'What's going on with you?" or something else, the point is the same, we're expecting a response about how a person feels . In the bible though in Hebrews 10:23 (KJV) we read: " Let us hold fast the profession of our faith without wavering; (for he is faithful that promised;) " It doesn't say that we hold fast to how we feel! God does not call us to lie ab