It's who you really know
I love people watching! I thoroughly enjoy sitting in a little coffee shop, observing interactions with people. I like to guess why people are there. Are they on a business meeting? Planning a party? Catching up with a friend or on a date? What really fascinates me is people's posture, tone and engagement with others. You can tell a lot about a relationship by those things. Sometimes you can look at an interaction and see that one person wants something from the other, or you can tell that there is a playfulness between people, or there is a struggle - even if you can't hear what they are saying. Communication flows from relationship. We will communicate differently depending on the depth of the relationship and the breadth of shared interests we have with someone. I will talk differently with my husband, John, than with the lady who makes my coffee at the cafe. John and I have more than 30 years of shared history together....