What matters?

What we believe matters. If you believe that someone is not honest, how you respond to that person's words will be different to how you will respond if you know a person is truthful. If you believe the weather forecast, you’ll dress one way; if you believe someone is a good driver, you'll be more relaxed; if you believe your friend loves you, you will feel safe and secure. The same is true spiritually for us. How we see God will determine how we relate to him, and affect how we approach him. If you don’t believe God is good - then how will you want to come to him in intimacy. Consider a marriage where the husband is aggressive, hurtful or belligerent. A woman who is in an abusive relationship is not going to willingly come and look for intimacy. She is certainly not going to entrust her heart to him, or run to him for comfort or strength. When a husband is good to his wife, she can lean on him and she w...